Unfortunately I had a bitter experience yesterday. Nothing better to bring you back to earth than a harsh reality check.
While asking for information about something regarding my career among a group of friends, the one to snub me and put me off was none other than the one who I considered to be my only friend at college.
She said that the course I wanted to take was not suitable because someone else had told her off too when she had discussed it.
Well, so much for encouragement. But it honestly annoyed me a lot. I'm not asking for advise here! and I'm not asking anyone's opinions. What I want to do with my life is my own business. And just because someone else snubbed you and you can't do it yourself doesn't mean that you put others down too. Esp. someone whom you claim to be your friend!
Furthermore what really hurt were the nasty comments. Ouch! I can still feel them stinging...
Anyways I did learn my lesson though: NEVER discuss your ideas or plans with someone who doesn't have a big heart. No matter how close you are, the people will always try to pull you down!
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